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Date Consulting

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Navigating modern dating can feel overwhelming—but it doesn’t have to be. Date Consulting is designed to equip you with the tools, confidence, and game plan you need to date with intention and ease. From refining your communication style to optimizing your dating profiles, we focus on showcasing the best version of you, helping you connect authentically and confidently.

Our Package

    • A full audit and refresh of your dating apps and Instagram to attract the right matches — without feeling fake or overdone.

      What’s included:

      • Profile updates for apps like Hinge, Bumble, and more, ensuring your bio and prompts reflect your personality and goals

      • Review and selection of your best dating app photos, making sure they capture you at your best

      • Customized bios and prompts that showcase your unique qualities, interests, and dating aspirations

      • Instagram audit to align your online presence with who you truly are and help you feel confident

    • Personalized feedback on how to start and sustain conversations (text, DMs, or in person)

    • Live swipe sessions to review profiles together and craft strong openers or responses in real time

    • Messaging strategy—how to move from chatting to meeting up with ease Tone and timing tips to help avoid ghosting, misunderstandings, or awkward lulls

    • Flirting guidance that fits your natural personality and comfort level

    • Post-date feedback sessions to reflect on what went well and where there’s room to grow

    • Not all meaningful connections happen online—sometimes, the best relationships start with a simple in-person conversation. This coaching focuses on building the confidence and skills to meet people naturally and authentically, in real-world situations.

      • Personalized feedback on how to approach and start conversations in social settings

      • Guidance on body language to appear approachable and confident

      • Tips for giving your number and asking for theirs without feeling awkward

      • Post-interaction follow-up strategies to keep things light and natural

      • Advice on where to meet singles in your area (events, social gatherings, etc.)

    • Wardrobe audit with specific outfit recommendations tailored to your lifestyle and typical dates

    • Signature "first date" look that feels like you—but elevated

    • Color analysis to identify tones that make you pop (especially useful for online photos!)

    • Makeup suggestions (for women or anyone who wears makeup) to highlight your natural features

    • Wardrobe guidance to help you know what to shop for and where to find it, so building your dating wardrobe feels easy and intentional

    • Grooming tips for men, including skincare, beard care, hair, and even fragrance advice

    • Confidence-focused styling for all genders, body types, and style levels

    • Customized strategies based on your specific goals and challenges

    • Actionable homework assignments to practice and reinforce new skills

    • Regular check-in meetings to discuss progress, adjust tactics, and ensure continued growth

    • Ongoing support to address new challenges and celebrate milestones

  • "I was skeptical at first, but Off Market helped me get out of my own way. The mindset shifts, personalized feedback, and honest conversations were game-changers. Dating feels intentional now, not random. Highly recommend if you're serious about finding your person."

    Jake T. (31)

  • "This wasn’t just about dating. It was about self-worth, confidence, and clarity. My coach helped me rewrite old patterns and show up authentically. I used to dread first dates. Now, I feel empowered walking into them."

    Monica G. (28)

  • "I thought I knew how to date, but Off Market taught me how to connect. My coach called out blind spots I didn’t even know I had. Within months, I was dating someone amazing."

    Chris T. (29)

  • "I cannot recommend Mary highly enough—working with her has been an incredible experience. Mary genuinely takes the time to understand each client, ensuring she finds meaningful and compatible matches. She is attentive, caring, and always available to answer any questions along the way. Dating can sometimes seem like a daunting experience, but working with Mary has made it so fun and enjoyable. If you're tired of relying solely on dating apps and hoping to meet someone amazing, Mary is absolutely the best person to partner with. I would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone."

    Howard (32)